Talking Contraception and Sexuality with Your Child

Sexual Abuse and Coercion

How can a parent help their child or teen

As a parent, you need to help your child or teen understand what sexual abuse/coercion is and how they can protect themselves. Here are a few pointers:

• Don't just say "be careful". Be specific. Give them examples.
• Don't warn them only about strangers, since offenders are often known to the child.
• Use proper names for sexual body parts. If your child can talk to adults more effectively, they are more likely to be taken seriously.
• Be sure they understand the difference between good and bad touches and that they always have the right to say NO to any touch they're uncomfortable with.
• Encourage your child to tell you about any incidents, stressing the fact that you will always believe them.
• Teach them to be "street smart". For example, you can make sure they know their address and home or work phone numbers, or you can use a family code word.
• Make sure they understand that even "nice" people, friends, or relatives can coerce them into dangerous situations.

Last Modified: September 5, 2006