Contraception

Tips to Talk to Your Child About Contraception

Let your son or daughter know that you want them to be able to talk about their feelings and relationships with you; that you want them to have good information about contraception, safer sex, and about being pressured to have sex; that you want them to be happy, not hurt, in their relationships.

It's important that your child has good information on contraception, sexually transmitted infections, and how to stay sexually healthy. Equally important, however, are your child's questions, concerns, the way they feel, and the knowledge that they can come to you if they need it.

• Be prepared. Make sure you have all the information on contraception to prevent unwanted pregnancy and protection against STIs. This may be awkward, but not as bad as when your teen comes to you and says they're pregnant or infected.
• Try to convey your feelings and values.
• Answer any questions simply and honestly.
• Timing is important; try to bring up this conversation long before your child is sexually active. This will allow them to be fully prepared and able to make mature decisions.
• Stay calm, as the key to effective communication is for both to listen and respond, not lose their cool.
• In addition to talking with you, there may be other people they trust or places they can look to when they have questions. Suggest options beyond school - an older sibling, a family planning center, this Web site, your family doctor, etc.

Last Modified: September 5, 2006